How often do you girls go through the "contemplation phase" where you analyze everything and anything about your life. Work, relationships, success, friendships, surroundings, goals, fitness, health, families ... pretty much anything that comes to your mind in the moment. Despite the hectic life and schedules ahead of me, I find myself searching for the answer to the question of the moment. I personally am highly content (always) with everything I have whether it be Relationships, Finances or Success, I feel like I am where I am at any point is by choice so usually there isn't a reason for dissatisfaction. Then why all the questions??? Why the contemplation???
--Bulbuli =)
I thought this was absolutely HILARIOUS:"For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?', here's an update for you: 'Its not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.'"HAHHAHHAHHAHA ... My first time hearing that. Pretty funny!!!--Bulbuli =)
Its so great to hear about people in "love", when they meet their "soulmates", when they find the "one". You just know they're going to live happily ever after and have the perfect family and be perfectly content with their lives forever and forever .. I mean they're with their soulmates after all.
Whats even more amazing is when people have only dated for a few months and they seem to just KNOW that this person is the one for them. How do you know, so quickly, that this one person that you've known for ohhh some 3-4 months is the one for you? Its crazy to me when people start off their relationship knowing they're the ones, even get married after dating for a few months and realize less than a year down the road they weren't exactly on the same wavelength. Can you imagine the humiliation when you have to face your friends & family, the ones that had tried to convince you to take your time and not rush into things, and tell them that you will no longer be with this person that you had so certainly bragged about being your soulmate? That the one for you few months later became so NOT the one for you!
I have the most wonderful guy in the world. He is utterly caring, incredibly loving, soooo much fun to be with and I love spending every moment with him. Its not like we don't disagree or argue or fight but we love each other to death and always work through everything. He is the closest thing to a soulmate that I have ever known in my entire life and i definitely want him to be the "ONE" for me but I don't know that I could've gone around saying he's my soulmate the third month we were dating. Years later today, I feel like he's my bestest friend in the world and I love him like I have never loved anyone before but I think it would be years before I could truly realize that we're Soulmates. I can't imagine anyone else in my life but him but I think we would've truly earned the right to say we're the ONE for each other after we've proved each other through the toughest of times and stuck it out through thick and think and when he still loves me the same after I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant and when my monthly PMS is still bearable to him 10 years down the road and my food is still the best in the world and when our love grows more and more over the next 80 years.
--Bulbuli =)
